08 October 2014

A Ray of Sunshine

We have finally gotten everything clear to get Pop to the crematorium, we are waiting for the coroners signature and then we can finally lay him to rest. This has been more of a nightmare than this simple paragraph suggests, for a variety of reasons, but it is done now.

One of the things we had to deal with was a next of kin. Since Pop did not have a living will that we know of designating a next of kin we had to contact his sister out of state to make some phone calls and sign some papers. We have been searching for various papers at Pop's house as well, with varying results. We suspect that some of the papers were in a safe that is believed to have been stolen along with his household electronics.

But there is at least a little relief. It seems that one of Aunt D's many children was Pop's estate planner, and he called Eldest Daughter as soon as his mom told him the news. He has everything we need except the will, and he has verified that one was done after Mother In Law and Laura passed, so the executor of the estate is going to be either me or Eldest Daughter.

We have a safety deposit box key, and our hope is once we locate that box we will have located the will as well. That is my project for tomorrow.

I swear that I will not put my children through this. First thing when I get home I'm calling an estate planner and getting all my ducks in one row.

UPDATE: The safety deposit box is in the same branch of the bank he used there in town and Eldest Daughter is on the list to access it. I like easy.

6 comments:

Erin Palette said...

I'm so sorry you're having to go though this, Larry. *hugs*

Is there anything I can do to help you?

Larry said...

Probably nothing legal, but thanks for the offer. :D

A Mindful Webworker said...

Howdy. Been following this off and on. (Multitasking destroys the

After everything else, the Update on the SD box was nice to see, for your sake.

Larry said...

It certainly was. Thanks for dropping by!

RabidAlien said...

Good to hear things are working out (after a fashion)!

Larry said...

After a fashion. We still don't have the will, but we have everything else...including another mysterious safety deposit box key...